Right after 32th bday, I encounter some ugly truths that I've been avoided all this time.
1. People will appear and available to you whenever it benefits them only.
No matter the platform is, where they know you, how they met you initially - like it or not, they will always leeching your genuine heart.
2. People can't change.
No matter how hard you wish them to change, no matter how patient you try to be. it just doesn't work out, which makes me arrived to the next point:
3. You can't control everything.
4. The only thing you have is you - your own mind, self, person and heart.
5. We live to fill the time before death.
6. Some people are shit enough to show their true color: taking advantage of people when they need others but never show up when others need them. And they're not ashamed of it, and keep doing that.
7. Some people are anooying to the point where they proudly giving others unsolicited advice, continously.
8. Sometimes people are stupid enough to ignore red flags and sygnals of despair.
9. Life is not what we wished them to be, sometimes it's all about what we make the best out of what we've given.
10. Life is cruel, messy - so don't seek worldly power.
11. [Trigger warning] I learned that the bridge between life and death is as thin as hair.
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